Dating sf vs nyc

Is it easier to date in SF or NYC?

Add in the east bay, and NYC is only about 8 times larger then SF. So, even without the gender skew, there are just a lot more women in NYC, and a lot more types of women. NYC is far far far more diverse on every axis / scale. Ive lived and dated in both these cities in the past few years. Dating in NYC is easier, but with significant caveats.

What is the difference between SF and NYC culture?

In SF people usually talk about how awesome their lives ARE, in NYC (and LA) people talk about their goals and ambitions. SF is extremely self satisfied, and attitude that does not go over well in NYC, where, as good as things are, you are expected to be busting you ass to make it that much better.

What is it like to live in New York City?

NYC is far far far more diverse on every axis / scale. There are also a lot more men, but since the population is way less self selected and homogeneous then SF, being a tech guy who makes good money is a big plus, not just average.

What is the difference between SF and NYC culture?

In SF people usually talk about how awesome their lives ARE, in NYC (and LA) people talk about their goals and ambitions. SF is extremely self satisfied, and attitude that does not go over well in NYC, where, as good as things are, you are expected to be busting you ass to make it that much better.

Why don’t more people date in San Francisco?

Those who work in demanding tech and start-up jobs either don’t have the time to go on dates during the week after work or don’t want to give up their weekend of relaxing and getting caught up on chores, friends etc. The other characteristic of San Francisco and the Bay Area that has hindered dating is geography, transportation and climate.

Why is it difficult to meet other couples in San Francisco?

Some people evolve and better themselves yet do not know how to be vulnerable, dress well, be present, flirt nor plan a fun date while others lean on their achievements and profiles but are dull, uninteresting and socially awkward. Even if you are in a relationship, meeting other couples in San Francisco can be tough.