Herpes simplex 1 dating

Can I date if I have herpes?

People who have active herpes can start dating and engaging in sexual contact once they have been treated and recovered (after at least 7 days after the rash goes away), but it is important that they are honest with their partners. Using condoms may reduce the risk of herpes transmission but will not eliminate the risk completely.

What causes herpes simplex virus (HSV-1)?

They are usually caused by herpes simplex virus-1 (HSV-1). HSV-1 is the cousin of HSV-2, which is primarily associated with genital herpes . However, HSV-1 can also lead to genital herpes during oral sex and HSV-2 can sometimes lead to cold sores. HSV-1 is very common. About 67% of the worlds population under age 50 has HSV-1. 1

Can your partner get herpes if you have herpes?

You never know—your partner may divulge he or she also has herpes. And if they have the same type of the virus as you, they can’t get “reinfected,” Dr. Baldwin says. (The herpes virus stays in a person’s body even after symptoms have subsided.) You could start the conversation by mentioning cold sores, then move into the subject of genital herpes.

How do you talk to your partner about herpes?

The conversation needs to happen before having sex and hopefully not in the heat of the moment. Alexandra Harbushka, founder of Life With Herpes and spokesperson for Meet People With Herpes, says a great way to lead with the topic is talking about both parties’ sexual health, and insisting that you both get tested.